#wednesday

it's an extraordinary thing, to meet someone who you can bare your soul to..
and who will accept you for what you are.. :)

..:: berSama Ibunda terCinta::..

i love you more and more everyday.. till jannah..:)

::: kembali :: ~ImaN berTambah & BerKurang~

Bismillah...

agak lama rasanya tak menulis di blog ni..
lately agak busy sbb final exam..
dan takde idea jugak..
dan malas pn ade..hehe..
but now until 17 february nie, i'm having my sem break..
and i hope it would be great and filled up with all those good things which can bring me and us to jannah.. insyaAllah.. :)
and today i wanna tell you about my biggest problem during holiday..
which is,, i'm easily get lazy.. malas utk beribadah lebih..
buat yg wajib je.. T_T
this is really not good..
i'm trying to istiqamah, but it's not easy...
iman bertambah dan berkurang..
oh Allah.. forgive me when i don't thank you enough...
:(
so, from now on, sy mesti melawan nafsu..
syuhh3 syaitan yg direjam! jgn ganggu aku..kalau kau taknak putus asa hasut aku, aku pun takkan putus asa memohon perlindungan dari Tuhanmu dan Tuhanku..! Allah azza wajalla.. ! supaya dijauhkan dari bisikan kau yg paling halus..ameenn...

mse ni tngh cat dinding kolej ngn kwn..hee..

::: usah mencari yang terlalu sempurna ::; :))

Jika kamu memancing ikan...
Setelah ikan itu terlekat di mata kail,
hendaklah kamu mengambil ikan itu...
Janganlah sesekali kamu LEPASKAN ia semula ke dalam air begitu saja..
Kerana ia akan SAKIT oleh kerana bisanya ketajaman mata kailmu dan
mungkin ia akan MENDERITA selagi ia masih hidup.

Begitulah juga...


Setelah kamu memberi banyak PENGHARAPAN kepada seseorang...
Setelah ia mulai MENYAYANGIMU,
hendaklah kamu MENJAGA hatinya...
Janganlah sesekali kamu meninggalkannya begitu saja...
Kerana dia akan TERLUKA oleh kenangan bersamamu,
dan mungkin TIDAK dapat MELUPAKAN segalanya selagi dia mengingatmu...

Jika kamu menadah air biarlah berpada,
jangan terlalu mengharap pada takungannya dan janganlah menganggap ia
begitu teguh... cukuplah sekadar keperluanmu...
Apabila sekali ia retak... tentu sukar untuk kamu menambalnya semula...
Akhirnya ia dibuang...

Sedangkan jika kamu cuba memperbaikinya,

mungkin ia masih dapat dipergunakan lagi...

Begitu juga jika kamu memiliki seseorang, TERIMALAH seadanya...

Janganlah kamu terlalu mengaguminya dan

janganlah kamu menganggapnya begitu istimewa...

Anggaplah dia manusia biasa.

Apabila sekali dia melakukan KESILAPAN,

bukan mudah bagi kamu untuk menerimanya...

Akhirnya kamu KECEWA dan meninggalkannya.

Sedangkan, jika kamu MEMAAFKANNYA boleh jadi hubungan kamu akan TERUS hingga ke akhirnya....

Jika kamu telah memiliki sepinggan nasi,

yang kamu pasti baik untuk dirimu...

Mengenyangkan - Berkhasiat.

Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba mencari makanan yang lain..??

Terlalu ingin mengejar kelazatan... KELAK.. Nasi itu akan basi dan

kamu tidak boleh memakannya... Lalu kamu akan menyesal.

Begitu juga jika kamu telah bertemu dengan seorang insan,

yang pasti membawa KEBAIKAN kepada dirimu.

MENYAYANGIMU.. MENGASIHIMU...

Mengapa kamu berlengah,

cuba MEMBANDINGKANNYA dengan yang lain..??

Terlalu mengejar kesempurnaan... KELAK.. Kamu akan KEHILANGANNYA

apabila dia menjadi milik orang lain... Lalu kamu juga yang akan MENYESAL :')

..:::muslimah:::..by nazrey johari:))

muzium taiping, perak.. gambar xde kaitan dgn tajuk! ;))

oh muslimah..
berbahagialah..
kau telah 'dilahirkanNya'..dengan mulia..
subhanallah..Tuhan telah berkati.. wanita yang cukup ilmu..rendah hati..

oh muslimah..busanamu menutup rapi..
auratmu kau lindungi..dengan indahnya..
oh muslimah.. kau rajin mengaji..
islam kau jadikan ikutan sejati..

subhanallah.. Tuhan telah berkati..wanita yang cukup ilmu..rendah hati..
oh muslimah..
memandangmu menyejuk hati..
menundukkan nafsu..hati yang goyah..
keayuan wanita solehah..
indah peribadi..tulus hatinya..

oh muslimah..
kecantikan yang sebenar..
pada tutur kata penuh berhikmah..
mempertahan kehormatan dirimu..
dengan pakaian mentaati Allah..

oh muslimah ..
kau masuk ke syurga..
solat 5 waktu..
dan berpuasa..
menundukkan.. pandangan matamu..
mentaati suami..yang tercinta...:))

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:::suami dihimpit penyesalan..a story..::: :((

Cathy Ygona

Married or not you should read this...


“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

:::kisah seorang doktor..:(( :::

opps..gamba mcm xde kaitan dgn post?? hehe..a'ah..ni saje2 je..:)) happy reading..:))

KISAH DOKTOR YANG DIANGGAP DURJANA

Seorang doktor meluru masuk ke ruang hospital dalam keadaan tergesa-gesa selepas mendapat panggilan kecemasan dari pihak hospital..
dia menukar pakaian dan terus meluru ke blok pembedahan..
dia mendapati ayah kepada budak yang berada dalam bilik pembedahan sedang berdiri menunggunya..
apabila si ayah melihat doktor itu, dia terus berteriak..

"kenapa kamu ambil masa yg lama utk datang..??kamu tahu x anak saya dalam bahaya sekarang nie..??kamu x ada rasa bertanggungjawab ke..??"

doktor tersebut tersenyum dan berkata :

" sy minta maaf, saya berada di luar hospital & sy datang sepantas yg mungkin selepas mendapat panggilan kecemasan tu..dan sekarang, saya harap anda bertenang..jadi, saya dapat buat kerja saya.."

"bertenang kamu kata..?! kalau anak kamu berada dalam bilik 2 skrang nie, bolehkah kamu bertenang..??kalau anak kamu mati sekarang nie apa yg kamu buat..??kata si ayah dgn marah..

si doktor tersenyum lagi & berkata :

" saya akan kata bahawa Allah telah berfirman dlm kitab-Nya yg suci " drp Allah kita dtg dan kepada-Nya kita kembali"..doktor x mampu utk memanjangkan hayat seseorang..Insya-Allah kami akan cuba yg terbaik utk anak kamu.."

"memberi nasihat bila kita x mengalaminya memang senang..!" gumam si ayah..

pembedahan tu mengambil masa beberapa jam..x lama kemudian, si doktor keluar dgn gembira..

"alhamdulillah..anak anda selamat..!" dia terus berjalan tanpa menghiraukan si ayah "kalau kamu ada sebarang soalan..kamu boleh tanya jururawat..!"

"kenapa doktor 2 sombong sangat..?! x boleh ke dia tunggu beberapa minit supaya saya dpt tnya beberapa soalan tentang anak saya..?!"komen si ayah selepas melihat jururawat..

jururawat itu berkata sambil air mata mengalir di pipinya : "anaknya meninggal dunia semalam dlm kemalangan jln raya..dia berada dlm upacara pengebumiaan anaknya ketika kami menghubunginya utk pembedahan anak encik..dan sekarang dia telahpun menyelamatkan nyawa anak encik, dia tergesa-gesa utk menghabiskan upacara pengebumiaan anaknya.."

::Never judge anyone..... because U never know how their life is & what they're going through.
p/s:c&p :)

..::terima sedanya::.. :))

aiceeewahh..terima seadanya..ekeke..
sebenarnya tajuk je nk gempak ckit..
content die ekceli nk cite pasal spesifikasi calon suamiku yg paling minimum..:)))
ok jap.. sy bukan memilih okey.. tp,, saje2 nk bt wishlist skit..berangan la konon2 nye..ehehe..
sy pn manusia biasa..hamba Allah yg hina.. tak perfect mana..
tp sy bersyukur dengan segala nikmat yg Allah dh beri pd sy.. keluarga yg penyayang,, kawan2 yg mcm2 ragam..hehe.., pelajaran yg baik,, kehidupan yg baik walaupun sederhana..alhamdulillah.. Allah tahu yg terbaik utk sy.. dan insyaAllah lepas ni,, mgkin Allah akan pertemukan hati sy dengan hati yang mencintai-Nya lebih dri segala-galanya.. dan yang dapat membimbing sy menuju Allah.. :)) insya Allah..

okeyyy!! spesifikasinye tak banyak..sebab sy pun tak cerewet mane.(skit2 je..ehehe) ... berdasarkan 4 perkara iaitu, agama, harta, kecantikan, dan keturunan.. insyaAllah..:)

1) Solat 5 waktu mesti cukup..sebab solat tu tiang agama..kalau tak solat, kite ni ibarat meruntuhkan agama kite sendiri..

2) Sentiasa berusaha mencintai Allah dan rasullullah dengan melakukan amalan2 sunat..paling penting baca al-Quran even 1 ayat dlm sehari..:))

3) Sentiasa mencintai ibunya..dan kemudian barulah mencintai sy sebagai isterinya.. :))

4) Matang dan bertanggungjawab..

5) Ada pekerjaan yg blh menjamin .. biar tak de kelulusan tinggi,, tp sentiasa ada usaha utk maju..bkn nye hny tunggu bulan jatuh ke riba tanpa sebarang usaha!

6) tak encem takpe..sbb sy pn tak cantik mane..:) tp cukup pemurah dengan senyuman utk sy setiap hari.. senyuman penyejuk hati..:)

7) kalau blh romantik2 ckit..eheheh.. (gatainye aku ni)

8) blh terima sy seadanya..dan berjanji takkan menduakan sy selagi sy masih hidup dan selagi sy msih mampu.. :))

9) cintai Allah sepenuh hati..kerana sy yakin,, bile die cintakan pencipta sy,, die juge akan ikhlas mencintai sy.. kerana cinta yang terbina adalah cinta yang suci..

10) boleh slalu imamkan solat sy.. bacekan ayat2 suci al-quran utk sy pd hening malam hari.. sentiasa menjadi my guidance angel diwaktu susah dan senang.. :))

ya Allah..izinkan aku utk bersama dengan hamba pilihan-Mu utkku.. izinkan hati kami bertaut.. hanya diriMu yang mengetahui segalanya.. yang tersurat mahupun tersirat..

WHAT IS "Istidraj" ??

Suka Allah Biarkan Kita Terus Sesat Dengan Nikmat Dunia?

Eh eh, engkau yang bajet alim tu. Tudung labuh, tak cakap dengan lelaki, jalan pun tunduk sampai langgar tiang, usrah sana, usrah sini, dakwah sana, dakwah sini. Aku nak tanya kau ni.

Awak cakap dengan saya ke?

Haah, kau lah. Siapa lagi? Takkan aku cakap dengan dinding pula. Aku tengok akademik kau tak ada lah bagus sangat. Apa cerita kawan? Doa kau tak makbul ke?

Oh. Bukan macam tu. Sebenarnya…..

Kau tengok aku, couple, tiap-tiap weekend keluar dating, tengok wayang, hang out dengan kawan-kawan. Dapat juga result cemerlang, dekan tiap-tiap semester. Tak payah nak doa sangat pun sebab aku yakin, aku memang pandai. Hehe (gelak bangga)..

Sebenarnya saya nak…..

Alah, tak payah lah nak bagi macam-macam alasan lagi. Hakikatnya, hidup kita ni kita yang tentukan semuanya. Kalau jadi baik alim sekalipun, belum tentu Allah akan tolong kita. Hidup aku bebas, tak terkongkong, enjoy saja. Bestnya.

Awak, tolonglah bagi saya habiskan kata-kata saya dulu. Boleh tak? Sebenarnya saya nak kata yang kita jangan terlalu bangga yang kita berjaya sedangkan pada masa yang sama kita lakukan perkara yang dimurkai Allah. Mungkin juga itu adalah istidraj.
Istidraj tu apa?

Sebenarnya, hendaklah kamu tahu tentang nikmat-nikmat Allah yang telah dikurniakan kepada makhluk-makhlukNya. Pemberian nikmat Allah kepada hambaNya yang setia (yang dikasihiNya) ialah pemberian yang diredhaiNya, tetapi pemberian nikmat Allah kepada manusia yang melakukan maksiat dan kejahatan adalah pemberian yang tidak diredhaiNya. Inilah yang dinamakan ISTIDRAJ.

Pemberian yang redha ini seperti pemberian ayah kepada anaknya. Ketika si ayah hendak sembahyang, tiba-tiba lalu si penjual aiskrim. Si anak merengek minta dibelikan. Si ayah pun membelikannya kerana tidak mahu anaknya mengacau dia sembahyang. Dengan senyum mesra diberikannya aiskrim itu dengan layanan yang baik. “Makan baik baik nak, jangan bising-bising, ayah nak sembahyang.”

Kemudian, baru saja nak sembahyang, si anak menjerit-jerit minta tambah aiskrim lagi. Si ayah naik darah. Dengan perasaan marah, dibelikan juga aiskrim tersebut kerana takut sembahyangnya tidak khusyuk. Tetapi pemberiannya pada kali ini tidak disertai dengan kemesraan. Pemberian inilah yang dikatakan sebagai pemberian yang tidak redha.

Begitu juga Allah S.W.T. dengan kita. Kadang-kadang manusia mendapat nikmat yang diredhai Allah dan kadang-kadang tidak. Rasulullah S.A.W. bersabda yang bermaksud, “Apabila kamu melihat bahawa Allah Taala memberi nikmat kepada hambaNya yang selalu membuat maksiat (derhaka), ketahuilah bahawa orang itu telah diIstidrajkan oleh Allah S.W.T.” (Riwayat At-Tibrani, Ahmad dan Baihaqi)

Akan tetapi manusia derhaka yang terkeliru dengan pemikirannya berpendapat bahawa dengan nikmat yang datang mencurah daripada Allah S.W.T kepadanya itu walaupun dia sentiasa melakukan maksiat, dia menyangka itu adalah bukti yang menunjukkan bahawa Allah kasih dan berserta dengan perbuatan maksiat mereka.ISTIDRAJ.

It is when Allah gives you rezki
not to help you
but to let you go astray.
......................
Nauzubillah min zalik.
Moga rezki yang kita perolehadalah tanda kasihNya
bukan istidraj daripadaNya

By:
Exco Lajnah Kebajikan Dan Akademik
Ikatan Studi Islam Ukm (ISIUKM) 12/13 &

http://syahirul.com/apa-itu-istidraj/